Pickering College - Voyageur Yearbook (Newmarket, Ontario Canada)

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courage to stand beside a friend or belief in a time when he or it has been challenged. And prayer is courage - courage to accept and ask for forgiveness of one s sins. I would now like to talk of a. different kind of courage - The courage of Pickering. In the years I have been at Pickering, I have seen this courage many times. The courage to accept a man no matter what his race, colour, or religion - All we have to do is look around us to see this phase of Pickering. Pickering also has a. courage of patience and understanding for each in- dividual. At times, when a. boy has come into some difficulties his problem is discuwed and thought out, rather than immediate punishment. This method has often been criticized by other schools but it certainly leaves a better under- standing between staff and students. Another type of courage is when a boy who has left Pickering praises his old school. XVe often are accustomed to hearing the same type of boy speak badly of the school when he is he1'e. It is heart warming to hear this new man now speak in praise of the things Pickering has given him. In conclusion, the things at Pickering which demand our courage must be in academics - to come out at the top of the ladder in Jtme, - also sports require our courage and we witnessed a good example this year in our Senior Football team. The final courage is in the need to trust, to be honest and to be faithful to our fellow men. - If you have these ideas in your mind and try to use them Well you will be a courageous man. DAVE BEER. C C lf dlsclp une HERE ARE Two TYPES OF DISCIPLINE - external and internal. External dis- cipline is the discipline we experience as children or in some eases as adults. This type of discipline is exerted upon a person who cannot control himself inwardly. It may take the form of a bawling out or in most extremes cases a jail sentence. Internal discipline is the discipline We experience within ourselves. It is the direct result of the external discipline we experience as children. This means that we are disciplining ourselves instead of having other people, discipline us. This is most important as it is the sign of a person maturing and able to conduct himself in the society around him. Examples of persons not being able to control themselves are evident all around us. The Newspapers are full of stories concerning people who have taken the wrong turn. This wrong turn may have started when they were young and had no one to discipline them. Last year in Pickering a student had trouble himself. The staff tried various methods of external discipline upon this unhappy soul for a long time. He was given a. number of chances but he continued on in his actions. As a result of these actions a few studentsvlives were made so miserable that they left Pickering. This forced the College to enforce more external discipline and the particular student was asked to leave. Had this person only learned to give himself a bit of internal discipline he would probably be here today. He had the intelligence to make a. successful career out of the rest. of his life but because of his unwillingness to grow up he ruined his hopes for success, in Pickering. Twenty-one

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forward and offered to stay in prison While Damon was allowed to go home. The King was very much surprised, but he had given his word, Damon was therefore permitted to leave for home, while Pythias stayed in prison. Many days passed, the time for the execution was close at hand and Damon had not returned. The King went. to the prison to see Pythias. Your friend will never return, the King said: 'tYou are wrong Pythias answered, Damon will be here if he can possibly come. But he has to travel by sea, and the winds have been blowing the wrong way for several days. However, it is much better that I should die, I have no wife and no children, and I like my friend so well that it would be easier to die for him than to live without a friend. So I am hoping and praying that he may be delayed until my head has fallen. The King went away more puzzled than ever. The fatal day arrived but Damon had not returned. Pythias was brought forward and led upon the scaffold. My prayers were heard, he cried, I shall be permitted to die for my friend. But mark my words, Damon is loyal to his friends, you will yet have reason to know that he had done his utmost to be heref, Just at that moment a man galloped up at full speed on a horse covered with foam. It was Damon. In an instant he was on the scaffold, and had Pythias freed. He said the Gods be praised for your safety. NVhat worry I have suffered in the fear that my delay was putting your life in dangerfl There was no joy in the face of Pythias, for he knew the loss of his friend would be great. But the King had heard all. At last he was forced to believe in the unselfish friendship of these two. His hard heart melted at the sight., and he set them both free, asking only that they would be his friends and c' . Perhaps this story is a. little far-fetched,but the Idea, Be loyal to your friends is not. You don't have to stand in on a death sentence as Pythias did. There are many other ways in which you can show loyalty. Perhaps you have heard one of your friends insulted or criticised by some one behind his back. And because you want to be one of the boys, you agree, but shouldn't you have the loyalty to stick up for your friends? If you are loyal to your friend you should stand up for him, no matter what the consequences. If your friend is in the wrong, the truth will eventually come out. But be loyal to him and show him your friendship. There are two more virtues which you probably have picked from this story. Loyalty to yourself and loyalty to your Ideals or school. -IoHN RENWICK. C0ll llyQ oU'LL BE A MAN MY s0N! A man in the words of Rudyard Kipling had the will to enter difficulties and conquer them - He had the will to speak individually in a. crowd. - he also had the will to live every minute thoroughly and not falter - All these in one man make him a courageous man! - We often think of courageous men as those who fight bravely in the pitch of battle or men who explore the great unknown. But we have courage too if we think about it. Will power is courage - courage raging inside one's mind, whether to do a job, or, as we often do, leave it for later. Loyalty is courage - Twenty

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Discipline need not be a cold, unfeeling concept, if we appreciate it as part of wisdom along with courage, forgiveness and unselfishness. Indeed these other qualities may not exist without it. A person who has disciplined himself is to be admired. How often have you wished you had the will power to settle down and study for exams. Is this really will power or self discipline? No matter what it is, the person who has this is much further ahead of the person who has not got it. You may complain of your life here at Pickering - that it does not have all the comforts and freedom of home. Pickering however is attempting to mould you into a being with a purpose and one of its ways is by applying discipline. The value of discipline need not be explained as most of us realize the importance it has in our lives. In order to mould a successful future for ourselves, the present must contain discipline. BARRY IWUNCASTER. look ing forward HEsE YEARS which we are in right now are our formative years. How we conduct ourselves in eveiything we do now is the manner in which we will conduct ourselves in the future. Are We making use of the materials which we have and the previous skills which we have attained? NVe must concentrate on learning all we can at the present time to make ourselves useful citizens in the future. If we are able to attain a good education and a. basic grounding in the im- portant matters now, it will be a guarantee of prosperity for us in the future, and also a guarantee of our Democratic System. Everything that we do now in the line of education and of learning should be of some consequence to our future. Because of the chaotic state of world affairs, people nowadays seem to be living only for the present. The future holds surprises and chances for advancement for anyone who is prepared to cope with them. Have we at Pickering got the forward look? I don't think so, not yet anyway. For the boys in the graduating class, this is a year of decision. For if we do not produce when we must, our chance of a bright future is at stake. We have had good fellowship at school in the past months and we shall continue to have in the future. However, we must get the vision and work together to reach our goal of a good education in order to deserve a good position in the business world or if we are planning on furthering our education. This country of which we are a part is to have a great future. To have such, Canada will require the same calibre of leadership which she has been used to over the years. Of course, everyone knows the importance of what I have been talking about. But we cannot reach our goal of a good education unless we plan and work ob- jectively. We must remember our task now and our future will look after itself. MIKE MITCHELL a high way and a low VERY MAN IS GIVEN oPPoE'rUNI'rIEs - he can make the best of these opportunities by taking the high way which leads to self improvement and a better future. Twenty-two