California State University Northridge - Sunburst Yearbook (Northridge, CA)

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gain She Orders - Ch z'clzen Salad, Please 'i FOR him she is wearing her new frock. For him she is trying to look her pret- tiest. If only she can impress him-make him like her-just a little. Across the table he smiles at her, proud of her prettiness; glad to notice that others admire. And she smiles back, a bit timidly, a bit self-consciously. What wonderful poise he has! What complete self-possession! If only she could be so thoroughly at ease. She pats the folds of her new frock ner- vously, hoping that he will not notice how embarrassed she is, how uncomfortable. He doesnlt-until the waiter comes to their table and stands, with pencil poised, to take the order. HA chicken salad, please. She hears her- self give the order as in a daze. She hears him repeat the order to the waiter, in a rather surprised tone. Why had she ordered that again! This was the third time she. had ordered chicken salad while dining with him. He would think she didnlt know how to order a dinner. Well, did she? No. She didnlt know how to pronounce those French words on the menu. And she didnit know how to use the table appointment as grace- fully as she would have liked; found that she couldnlt create conversationeand was actually tongue-tied; was conscious of little crudities which she just knew he must be noticing. She wasnit sure of herself, she didnt kn'ow. And she discovered, as we all do, that there is only one way to have com- plete poise and ease of manner. and that is to know definitely what to do and say on every occasion. Are You Conscious of Your Crudities ? It is not, perhaps, so serious a fault to be unable to order a correct dinner. But it is just such little things as these that betray US-that reveal our crudities to others. Are you sure of yourself? Do you know precisely what to do and say wherever you happen to be? Or are you always hesitant and ill at ease. never quite sure that you havenlt blundered? 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rAM '7 1 ORGANIZATION INDEX Associated Men Students ...................... 134 Associated Women Sfudems .................... 136 Alpha Omega Sorority ......................... 168 Beta Pi ..................................... 154 5610 Sigma Pi Fraternity ....................... 182 Beta Tau Sorority ............................. 170 B1ue Key .................................... 149 C.A.H.P,E.R. ................................. 154 Comenoe ............................ I ....... 148 Chi Delta Psi Fraternity ........................ 192 Chi Sigma Delta Sorority ....................... 178 Delta Sigma Nu Fraternity ...................... 184 Gamma Gamma Phi Sorority .................... 172 Hillel Council ............... V ................. 151 Inter-Frdternity Council ........................ 165 Infer-Sorority Council .......................... 165 Kappa Delta Psi Frmernify ..................... 186 Marketing Club .............................. 150 Monterey Hall ............................... 142 Newman Club ............................... 152 Omega Sigma Phi Sorority ...................... 180 Phi Sigma Tau Frafernify ....................... 190 Pi Kappa Tau Fraternity ....................... 188 Red and White ............................... 146 Sigma Phi Beta Fraternity ...................... 195 Theta Sigma Tau Sorority ...................... 176 Tiddleywinks Socie'ry .......................... 148

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ct your- 1: salad. 1 with 3 Would uli you 155 you will be arm: 17: :eW Yor k, 1959' GENERAL INDEX A Aaron, Michelle ....................... 170 Abalie, Cafhi ......................... 174 Abram, Trudi ......................... 144 Adams, Rod ........................ 91, 99 Agee, Edna F. ......................... 44 Aiken, Patricia ......................... 9O Alder, Judy .......................... 170 Alexander, T. ......................... 116 Allen, B. ............................. 105 Allen, Robert ......................... 185 Allen, Terrie .......................... 176 Alma, Trio ............................ 93 Alpert, Margaret ...................... 144 Altman, Dove .................... 160, 161 Anoble, Joy C. ..................... 44, 178 Anderson, Gary ....................... 185 Anderson, Chuck ...................... 186 Anderson, Patti ....................... 172 Anderson, Peter J. ...................... 44 Andrews, William ................... 64, 88 Anselmino, James ..................... 189 Appleby, Susie ....................... 178 Ariga, Steve ...................... 112, 113 Arkinson, Mark ................... 112, 113 Armond, Judith E. ...................... 44 ArneH, Dr. Glenn W. .................... 33 Arsdale, J. Van ....................... 120 Ar'rega, Mike .......................... 91 Aver, Carl ........................... 151 Axel, Robert .......................... 149 B Bachmon, Conrad ...................... 86 Bocklin, Helen ......................... 85 Bailey, Roberf G. ................... 44, 190 Bailey, Walter ......................... 90 Baker, Janice ......................... 180 Baldwin, Ronald J. ..................... 44 Ball, Mar'ry ........................... 159 Bolonick, Arnold ...................... 192 Barabba, Vince ........................ 82 Barbaro, Pot ......................... 152 Barber, Jeanelle ..................... .. 176 Boron, Sfuorf ......................... 131 Barrett, Vickie .................. 84, 88, 89 Basset, Jon .......................... 176 Bolyard, Glynene ...................... 176 Buffing, Janine ....................... 168 Boyer, Nancy ......................... 168 Beck, Judge Julian ..................... 39 Belden, Carole A. ...................... 44 Beller, Arlene E. ........................ 44 Bellman, Willard Dr. ................. 85, 88 Benson, Coach David .............. 121, 154 Benya, John S. ......................... 45 Berghoff, Herbert .................. 195, 196 Bergmann, Judi ................... 148, 168 Beridon, A. ........................... 116 Berk, Harvey D. ........................ 45