Brockton High School - Brocktonia Yearbook (Brockton, MA)

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16 BROCKTONIA been deprived of the educational ad- vantages which we are so fortunate in possessing. In both these cases, the relationship should be stimulat- ing and inspirational. It is likely. however, that most of us will desire comrades who are neither illiterates nor pedants, but rather those who recognize and appreciate the value of knowledge. Again. shall we select our com- panions by the standard of influ- ence? Truly, influence is a powerful magnet. Such authority which might further advance the realization of our ambitions frequently offers a most tempting friendship. Never- theless, while considering this issue. let us realize that a friendship based purely upon it will necessarily be fleeting. We will admit, however. the potency of influence which I be- lieve should be regarded as a com- ponent part of friendship, not its foundation. As Emerson once said, We should seek our friends not sacredly, but with an adulteration passion which would appropriate him to our- selves. Lasting friendship must be a compromise. That is, real com- radeship should have mutual bene- Hts. We do not desire a prospective friend to undergo a complete altera- tion of his habits and inclinations: nor does he wish for a like surrender on our part. Our friend should be one who furnishes entertainment without requiring us to stoop, or to cquivocate, or to mask the real self. In spite of all that we may say regarding the choice of friends, the finest, truest type of friendship is quite involuntary: in fact, it is the by-product of co-operative endeav- or. The essence of friendship is entireness, a total magnanimity and trust. In conclusion, these two funda- mental problems. choosing a life work wisely and selecting friends prudently, are indeed closely inter- woven. May we realize the pro- digious importance of both, and that the forming of friendships without preparation for a career would be an iv unsound basis for living. while even the greatest success in a career void of friendships would be but hollow mockery. Lawrence M. Nelson, '29. THE DISCOVERY SCIENCE NOW SEEKS Science is delving deep into the realms of the unknown, seeking to provide for the public a benefit so far not known to mankind. The solution of this mystery will be of great pleasure to the skeptical populace, who, now in comparative agony, hopefully await the day when termination shall greet their trials. The man of the house, who rises cheerfully at the sound of his Big Ben , and who, still cheerful, takes his morning bath, gleeful in that he realizes his one source of happiness, his cake of Ivory will ever greet him from the top, rather than the bot- tom, of the tub, leaves for work cursing inwardly at the established impossibility of the one thing that would make his life complete. Mrs. Van Dalwinkle leaves her home one bright spring afternoon confident that the bridge lunch at the Country Club will be a huge suc- cess. She returns as the sun is slow- ly sinking in the west, her head drooping, the realization burning hot within her that the afternoon a total failure. And for reason! has been only one Dinner parties, tea parties, almost all kinds of parties are ruined only because-I But why should one fret and be so unhappy because of a thing proved, throughout the that has ages, inevitable? So goes the world! Fussing and fuming, all society impatiently lives For the day when science shall pro- claim before the awe-stricken mass, Here is the article which makes democracy safe! Here is the reliant, the ever-ready! Here is the grapefruit without the squirt! ' Frances Hale, '29.

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BROCKTONIA 15 factor not to be neglected in deter- mining a future vocation. If our self-analysis should prove our suit- ability for a life of service in one way or another, our supreme gift would be to devote ourselves to that ser- vice. In whatever line of life work we may lind ourselves, let us weave into our program some degree of un- selfishness. In my enthusiasm for public ser- vice. I would not disparage the ne- revsity of ample pecuniary returns. May an insatiable desire for wealth, however, not blind us to greater achievements, and to nner, nobler affairs than the mere material sus- tenance of life. But let us rather strive for the best, which is not wealth. and to love it as such is idolatry, and, as St. Paul declares, the root of all evil. Moreover. let us crystallize the recompenses of suc- cess. such as benefits which others de- rive from our inventions or accomp- lishments and our satisfaction in having done something well: these recompenses are of higher value than the dollar. Nevertheless, in these days when capital reigns, we must acknowledge the power of this king: but let us not bow obsequiously be- fore his scepter. As the Prophet saith. Ye cannot serve God and Mammonf' XVhile determining one course or another, I wonder if we shall be satisfied to assume a position indiffer- ent to further advancement, Let us consider. moreover, that we must move either forward or backward: we cannot remain long in a position of stagnancy. ln these days of prog- ress, in both the industrial and social spheres. perfection is a strong incen- tive. May we also realize that, al- though places for the indolent are scarce, there is always plenty of room for persistent. patient, and assiduous labor. Whether we reach our goal or not, A noble aim. Faithfully kept, is as a noble deed. Furthermore. as We face the tre- mendous issue, What shall we be? or What shall we do? our happiness de- mands thorough consideration. Who can give his best when retarded by the sting of dissatisfaction, or im- peded by the weight of depression, or hampered by a lack of earnest en- thusiasm? Without a doubt, happi- ness is an issue to be carefully bal- anced by us all before making the final decision concerning our future career. Thus, in consideration of these guides, let us venture forth from these halls at least partially equipped, I hope, with an understanding that vocations are not merely gifts for the asking, but rather attainments for careful deliberation and real sincerity. It is most essential that we have some fundamental idea of our capacity, and, to some extent, of our desires concerning a vocation: and we should, moreover, have formulated an opinion of our expectations about our chosen life work. Now, in addi- tion to selecting a career wisely, dur- ing this formative period of youth. the question of friends should be very prominent in our thoughts. Unknowingly we place require- ments on our friendship, and it lies within us to determine the price that shall be paid for our companionship. Popularity arises as a possible field for planting the seed of future friend- ship. But let us remember that most associations based on popularity alone are usually mistaken friend- ships and have only an evanescent existence. Furthermore, in these extravagant times. wealth entices many an irreso- lute person to a subservient and sometimes. degrading. acquaintance. The vision of good times, even at the risk of one's health and self-re- Spect, urges the acceptance of money as a standard. I sincerely hope. how- ever, that our friendship will be be- yond the reach of wealth and luxury. Still another possible basis for our friendship is education. I feel sure that we all shall enjoy the pleasure of having friends who possess an ed- ucation equal or superior to ours. Also, we shall, in al-l probability, appreciate many friends who have

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BROCKTONIA I7 HELEN F, McKENNEY Class Essayist Class Essay CONFIDENCE Everyone who watches an aero- plane maneuvering in space marvels at the skill and daring of the pilot, for today no one calls fliers fools. In truth, the rapid progress which has been made in the field of aviation de- mands the world's respect. To the pioneer airmen who have charted the sky trails around the world cred- it for this new faith in the air is due. These men suffered hardships pa- tiently, because they had confidence in themselves to perfect the aero- plane, confidence in mankind to rec- ognize the benefits of aviation, and --most important of all-conHd- ence in God to carry them safely through their high adventure, We. too, are pilots, each of his own life's plane. To guide this plane through the treacherous air pockets of life, we, like those gallant heroes of the air, must believe in ourselves, in mankind, and in God. The necessity for securing self- conlidence cannot be over-estimated, since without faith in ourselves we are like an aeroplane that lacks a pro- peller. Certainly we cannot expect to soar above others if we do not be- lieve in our own competence! But what of the time when we face fail- ure-utter defeat of all our plan- ning? We shall find that nothing is more destructive of self-confidence than failure. Nevertheless, there is no other time in our lives when we need more faith in ourselves than at this crisis. Even the failure itself may be more easily remedied than the impairment of self-confidence. We can avoid this risk of losing faith in ourselves by remembering that a few failures do not spell com- plete ruin. From our reading here in school, we can recall many exam- ples of self-confidence which. not- withstanding repeated failure, en- abled men to achieve success. Those of us who have enjoyed Richard Harding Davis's sparkling story, Gallagher , may be surprised to